Stylist Patire's haircuts
boost self-esteem for
terminally ill patients

Richard Patire has seen the joy terminally ill people feel when they get their hair cut and styled.

As the primary caregiver for his brother during the last nine months of his life in 1995, Patire saw firsthand how much it means for a patient to look his best when family and friends visit.

That's what drew him to volunteer at Alive Hospice three years ago.

"Looking your best is part of a person's sense of self and dignity," Patire said. "Most patients don't feel very attractive at this pint in their lives.

"By providing personal grooming to them, I can help them maintain a sense of dignity and self respect.

"It is such a powerful and fulfilling experience to know that you've made someone feel better about themselves," said Patire, owner of Riqué Image Center in Nashville.

Staff members at Alive hospice sing Patire's praises.

"He is a very compassionate person. Just being in his presence makes you feel good," said Sandra Thomas, coordinator of volunteer services. " He has a great rapport with our patients and a genuine love for people."

Splitting his time between here and Los Angeles, he still manages to share what he knows and does with these patients and their families. Patire also helps recruit other hairstylists to share their skills at The Residence.

In addition, he also lends his support by assisting with special events and has been very involved in fundraising for Nashville Cares.

Alive Hospice is a community based, independent hospice providing support and comfort to terminally ill patients and their families.

 

 



Stylist to the Stars!

Though based in the country music capital, Riqué has done hair, makeup and fashion for recording artists all around the world - from Manhattan to Japan to Atlanta to L.A. He has worked with the likes of Emmylou Harris, Alan Jackson, Lyle Lovett, K.T. Oslin, The Judds, Patty Loveless, Tanya Tucker, Suzy Bogguss and Vince Gill. When a country music video needs to be done, producers often call on Riqué to do the styling, not only for the hair but also makeup, fashions and art direction.

Riqué likes to talk most about Emmylou, with whom he has worked for nearly a decade. "She's a sweetheart," he confides. One of the reasons she bought her current house" is tat it's around the corner from my salon!"

Lately the Grand Ole Opry star has been wearing her hair shorter, permed and glazed, according to the designer. "Glazing lets the (natural) gray be the highlights, "Riqué explains. "It's a translucent coloring." By maintaining the variation of the tone, the growing-in process becomes easier. The healthier, low-lift, low-volume peroxide does away with the "root problem," which women experience when drastically changing their haircolor. You could go fro months without touchups or even give up the highlights if desired.

Riqué says Emmylou gets compliments on the many different ways she wears her hair. The mane expert says there are two reasons she gets such versatility: the cut and the perm. Here're the secrets that lend themselves to the various looks you've seen Emmylou wear: long, side bangs with little wisps underneath, and angled fringe and long layers throughout. Her style of bangs works well on many hairstyles, according to the stylist extraordinaire. The design gives her the option of wearing a soft bang, lifting the fringe to one side or taking it totally off the face.

"The long layers help release the curl," he explains. "The cut is so important for anyone's hair!"

The former New Your City stylist gets most excited when talking about Emmylou's perm. She calls the look "Riqué on the road"; he calls it wash 'n' wear hair. "We give Emmy a perm once a year right before she starts touring," Riqué reveals. "In the interim we have her highly conditioned with oil treatments to revitalize the perm. She's concerned abut "over shampooing" and takes care to avoid doing it.

Riqué suggests waiting to shampoo a perm for three to four to even seven days after getting it done for longer lasting results. His reasons? "You don't want to disrupt the curl pattern."

To create Emmylou's natural locking curl, Riqué uses a weave rolling technique, alternating two different-sized rods on one strand of hair. That way you get an "unorganized curl pattern which looks really natural," Riqué says. By rolling hair vertically on the sides, he achieves a cascading effect. Riqué does what he calls directional rolling on top to get the desired movement. For Emmylou, he takes the rods over to the side so there will be gorgeous waves moving off the face.

This stylist to the country stars recommends conditioning before, during and after a perm. He always cuts hair after perming to cut into the curl or the wave. Don't perm more than twice a year, Riqué advises. "It's too hard on your hair."

Other tricks of the trade: "Try not to shampoo every day. Your hair and scalp need natural oils." A perm may be moistened with water daily before styling, he explains. Wetting the hair every day removes today's light products, according to Riqué, who should know because he has developed his own line of hair-care products.

If your hair needs shampooing every day, Riqué suggests concentrating on the scalp. He's a firm believer in the 100 strokes a day wives' tale... but only if you use a natural bristle brush that will distribute the natural oils from the roots to the ends.

His favorite client is a great example of the changing style of country music stars. "Country is really transcending the old bouffant... the 'lopsided, conehead' look," notes the fashion leader. "I usually try to steer women away from Big Hair. Women who wear short hair are really fashionable if the cut is designed for the individual's looks and features and if the weight line is right."

Referring to Emmylou, he says, "I've taught her how to do her makeup. It's an easy, natural approach. I do this technique I call eye art with one pencil and a brush." Also naming it enhancement makeup, Riqué teaches women how and where to line, brush and smudge. "It's not a lot of work, just embellishing."

As an extension of years' working with singers, this hair designer has come up with a line of easy-to-use hair-care products. Emmylou uses the styling tools religiously and has given them the same name as her perm: "Riqué on the Road." The aloe-based, environmentally responsible collection includes shampoo, moisturizer, protein treatment, spray and mousse. Before finalizing the line, the stylist "tested the products on musicians who need reliable hair care tools that are easy to use on the road."

We could go on and on about this beauty authority, but his hints could fill a book. Now that you know who Riqué is, watch for his name on videos, album covers and in other magazines.